German soccer great Thomas Hitzlsperger reflects on coming out publicly 10 years later (2024)

Thomas Hitzlsperger remains the most prominent male soccer player to ever come out. A decade following his big announcement, there still isn’t an out player in England’s Premier League, the most-watched sports league in the world.

Overall, the number of male pro soccer players to have come out during or after their playing careers is barely into the double digits.

But Hitzlsperger doesn’t feel like there’s been no progress. The German soccer great says the sport is far more welcoming today, even with the dearth of out players.

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“Often people say to me, ‘Nothing has changed since I’ve come out. No other players or very few players have come out.’ I said, ‘That’s correct.’ But in terms of the fans and the awareness, so much has changed,” he said in a recent interview. “Clubs really take it seriously now when they talk about diversity and inclusion, and that’s mainly to the fan clubs who have had a really huge voice.”

There are multiple LGBTQ+ fan groups throughout the Premier League, supporting a variety of clubs. A couple of years ago, Premier League stars met with specific fan groups to commemorate the annual “Rainbow Laces” campaign.

For one week each season, players are encouraged to rainbow regalia, including captain’s armbands and laces. Stadiums are also lit up in rainbow colors.

The first “Rainbow Laces” campaign launched in September 2013, just months after Hitzlsperger had retired. He publicly came out the following January in an interview with a German newspaper, Die Zeit.

In the interview, Hitzlsperger, who says he didn’t realize he was gay until adulthood, spoke to the hom*ophobic attitudes he encountered as a player:

He had always resented the contradictions that were set up in the football world in dealing with hom*osexuality. Professional sport is a hard, competitive sport where “struggle, passion and will to win are inextricably linked.” This does not fit the stereotype that many people hold of gay men, namely that “gays are sissies.”

Hitzlsperger says: “I’ve never been ashamed of it.” Nevertheless, the language of his teammates was not always easy to bear.

Many LGBTQ+ athletes talk about the freedom they feel after coming out, and credit their personal liberation with improved performance. NHL prospect Luke Prokop, for example, directly links his championship-level play with being his true self.

Unfortunately, Hitzlsperger never received that chance. But he still enjoyed an incredible career. He excelled on the German National Team, and was part of teams that finished third in the 2006 FIFA World Cup and second in the 2008 European Championship.

He receives bonus points for his dirty blonde locks…

Hitzlsperger, 41, played a total of seven seasons in the Premier League on three clubs, along with stints in Germany’s and Italy’s top pro leagues. When he came out, he says he didn’t know what to expect.

But 10 years later, he remembers knowing it was the right decision, regardless of the reaction.

“It’s been 10 long and absolutely exciting years,” he wrote on LinkedIn. “The 8th of January was a particularly eventful day for me. I didn’t know what to expect. I just knew it was the right decision for me… for a life in more freedom and without pressure to have to hide a side of me.”

It's been 10 years since I´ve come out publicly. What a great journey this has been! Thank you all for your support and kindness. I look back on some wonderful moments and experiences and will continue to fight for #Diversity and against #discrimination #comingout ? pic.twitter.com/6R1WiBH1wX

— Thomas Hitzlsperger (@Thomash*tz) January 8, 2024

With nearly 248,000 followers across social media, Hitzlsperger enjoys a large platform. He’s currently a sports exec, previously working as CEO of VfB Stuttgart, his former German club.

His autobiography, Tests of Courage, is slated to be released next month.

The fact that Hitzlsperger can work in high-profile roles in sports is a testament to progress, even if there’s still a long ways to go.

“I started a discussion about hom*osexuality in professional sports, because it had been taboo in my view until then,” he said. “The past 10 years have been marked by positive experiences, successes and setbacks. However, I can say with full conviction that I would do it all again in exactly the same way.”

The few active out male pro soccer players–Josh Cavallo, Jakub Jankto, Jake Daniels–express similar sentiments. While coming out may have been bumpy, they all arrived at their destinations.

With a successful sports and TV career, Hitzlsperger appears to be right where he needs to be, too.

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German soccer great Thomas Hitzlsperger reflects on coming out publicly 10 years later (2024)

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German soccer great Thomas Hitzlsperger reflects on coming out publicly 10 years later? ›

It's been 10 long and absolutely exciting years,” he wrote on LinkedIn. “The 8th of January was a particularly eventful day for me. I didn't know what to expect. I just knew it was the right decision for me… for a life in more freedom and without pressure to have to hide a side of me.”

When did Thomas Hitzlsperger come out? ›

On 8 January 2014, a few months after retiring, he became the highest-profile male footballer to come out as gay at the time. (In 2023, Czech Jakub Jankto became the first active male national footballer to come out as gay.) Hitzlsperger said that he had only realised that he was gay in the past few years.

Who is the German player in West Ham? ›

Jan Thilo Kehrer (German pronunciation: [ˈtiːlo ˈkeːʁɐ]; born 21 September 1996) is a German professional footballer who plays as a defender for Ligue 1 club Monaco, on loan from Premier League club West Ham United, and the Germany national team.

Who is German and played for Aston Villa? ›

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Thomas Hitzlsperger midfield01.07.2000FC Bayern Munich U19
Matthias Breitkreutz midfield01.01.1992SG Bergmann-Borsig Berlin
Stefan Beinlich midfield01.01.1992SG Bergmann-Borsig Berlin

Who did Thomas Hitzlsperger play for? ›

Thomas Hitzlsperger enjoyed a remarkable playing career, spanning 12 years and six clubs. His form across spells with Aston Villa, Stuttgart, Lazio, West Ham United, Wolfsburg and Everton as a marauding midfielder, saw him win 52 caps for Germany, while his ferocious left foot earned him the nickname "The Hammer."

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Sweden6218
Denmark6205
Germany417
Spain4365
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Versatile defender Gary Ablett made his debut under Kenny Dalglish in December 1986 after coming through the ranks and won two league titles with Liverpool before moving to Everton in 1992. The Scouser became the first player to lift the FA Cup with both clubs when the Toffees triumphed in 1995.

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